Thursday, 21 February 2013

stop being so judgemental

Am taking the time right now to blog about this topic since I'm sick, and in no mood to study at all despite the 4 papers I have next which, which sorta explains for my lack of updates.
So this is a topic,that has been widely broached, and yet something that will never be solved or settled just because. People are widely known to be judgemental, even on people they have never seen or met before. Even on passerby. It's really sad to say, but who am I, who are we to judge others like this.
Sure, we all make passing comments on the strangers we see on the street, judging them for a terrible fashion sense, overly made-up face, having a body-odour etc etc. But these, are all just superficial, and won't exactly hurt anybody since we do not know them, and they us.
BUT, what happens if it is a case of family members judging family? It has been an apparent issue in my family, although not immediate, and although I may not be in the position to say much, I can't help but to feel extremely irritated at the person.
Sure, that family may not have such a good background but that is just unavoidable. All we can do is show our support to them. But no. Instead of that, you have been doing the complete opposite, and going around belittling them. Sure, no to their face, but you tell other family members about it. Don't you see how despicable this act makes you?
It's not that you're very much better than them now that you are behaving as such you know. Seriously, with all that you have done, and being as hypocritical as you are, I am slowly losing all respect I've ever had for you.
And, seriously, what that family chooses to do, and how they behave is really not for you to judge. Everyone has their own way of doing things, and as different as it may be from yours, they are still right, as long as it is nothing against the law.
Don't go around making up ridiculous statements when we all know that it isn't true, especially when even you yourself know it isn't true. It just makes you look so terribly ugly on the inside.
I know no matter what, everyone is prone to judge someone. But even so, please do keep it to yourself especially when it comes to family! Because sometimes, the things you say, may cause shit you never want happening to happen. And by then, it would be too late to take those words back, and you may not even have the chance to remain on talking terms anymore.
Seriously, to anyone reading this post, do take note, Always be careful with what you say, because, I know what it's like to have said something wrong on impulse, and lose a friend because of it. I am not proud to admit it, but at least I know I've done wrong, and am willing to work on it. Being judgemental about people, especially those close to you really will bring you no where good.

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